Three Practical Reasons To Maintain A Written Task List While Planning Your Wedding
Planning for her marriage after becoming engaged at Christmas was the most exciting thing that Elise had ever done. The thrill of choosing the long flowing dress and picking out the floral arrangements that would most complement the hundred year old church altar was satisfying and added to her joy at marrying Josh. She was successful in booking the most popular party hall locally available for a full sit down dinner after the ceremony was performed and she happily chose the menu and decided upon the music that the small band would softly play for dinner and dancing. The only decisions left were choosing the invitations and ordering personalized photo gifts for the bridesmaids and the groomsmen. She investigated options online for ideas and found the perfect photo gifts. She was convinced she would end up with a lot of pictures of her guests enjoying her marriage ceremony and reception.
When making plans for a celebration such as a marriage ceremony, there are some things to consider to guarantee as much as possible an easily managed event. In the above example, Elise prepared a checklist that she was able to use to keep her on track and focused when considering all of the many details. The importance of using “to do” lists cannot be overstated because they are so important to us when completing something we have to accomplish. There is also a psychological implication that is worth examining when a list is used in the proper way and maintained. Three of those uplifting implications are:
1. Keeping tasks in chronological order: This is a system that organizes our mind and tasks in a way that provides self assurance and pleasure in what would surely be the dull things we have to do. It can be mind boggling to think about all of the contacts and the choices that have to be done to achieve the success of an event. Breaking down these meetings and decisions make them appear a lot more doable and provide a game plan that is realistic and attainable to tackle each day.
2. Writing down ideas spurns creativity: Sometimes the very act of writing down an idea or a job to be done can jog our creative juices and cause us to veer off on another path that can either save us some money or just be more pleasing to our overall plan. There are even instances when the act of writing down a responsibility reveals that it is not a necessary effort that needs to be made in order to reach the overall goal. This is a real savings of time and energy that is always appreciated.
3. Crossing off items on our lists chronicles achievement and completion: Nothing is as fulfilling when you are working on a big project with a lot of individual parts like crossing off tasks as they are completed. Checking off completed pieces of the plan shows a person exactly where he or she is in the overall process and provides much reflection and satisfaction in what is already over and done with.
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